Post by account_disabled on Mar 12, 2024 9:54:47 GMT
We all know that social networks are an extension of our personality. Through what we say, the things we write and the behaviors we have, we tell about our character and our temperament. Many argue that we must be authentic, show who we really are and not an artificial construction of us, of how we would like, but cannot, be. All very right, as I have been repeating for years on the blog, in courses and in books. I was talking about it a few days ago , on my Facebook profile, with Giovanni Le Coche who claims: “You may appear spontaneous for a short time, especially online, but then what is your 'self' emerges. Always! I'll give you a banal and perhaps obvious example: I've met many people online, some of them in person and with whom I've shared a lot.
They turned out to be ambiguous, interested and not at India Mobile Number Data all 'friendly' people who, overnight, changed their way of being to follow the 'wave'. This made me think a lot. (…) You can try not to be 'spontaneous' but, in the end, 'who you are' always comes out” I have my own theory about spontaneity. Many barricade themselves behind this to justify unhappy outings or unfriendly utterances and exculpate themselves by saying "that's how I am, I say what I think, I'm spontaneous" . In other cases they have made their grumpiness and abrupt manner a real flag, as if the word 'authoritarian' were a synonym for 'authoritative'. In both cases, I am not talking about changing character to please and conform to political correctness, which is currently so popular.
I just wonder if it is appropriate to express it in a moment of anger, when the belly takes on a predominant role compared to the brain, writing things that, with a cool head, one would never say. I've met many keyboard curmudgeons who are sweet and lovable in person, as well as the opposite. If 'spontaneity' means disconnecting your brain and letting go, then I think it's better to control yourself at the risk of appearing calculated. Taking care of your image means smoothing out sharp and sharp corners, not changing shape. It means that the profile photo can be taken in the best light and not necessarily changed with Photoshop. It means giving yourself a chance to be better understood and not turning people away at the first, disastrous, impression.
They turned out to be ambiguous, interested and not at India Mobile Number Data all 'friendly' people who, overnight, changed their way of being to follow the 'wave'. This made me think a lot. (…) You can try not to be 'spontaneous' but, in the end, 'who you are' always comes out” I have my own theory about spontaneity. Many barricade themselves behind this to justify unhappy outings or unfriendly utterances and exculpate themselves by saying "that's how I am, I say what I think, I'm spontaneous" . In other cases they have made their grumpiness and abrupt manner a real flag, as if the word 'authoritarian' were a synonym for 'authoritative'. In both cases, I am not talking about changing character to please and conform to political correctness, which is currently so popular.
I just wonder if it is appropriate to express it in a moment of anger, when the belly takes on a predominant role compared to the brain, writing things that, with a cool head, one would never say. I've met many keyboard curmudgeons who are sweet and lovable in person, as well as the opposite. If 'spontaneity' means disconnecting your brain and letting go, then I think it's better to control yourself at the risk of appearing calculated. Taking care of your image means smoothing out sharp and sharp corners, not changing shape. It means that the profile photo can be taken in the best light and not necessarily changed with Photoshop. It means giving yourself a chance to be better understood and not turning people away at the first, disastrous, impression.